I know that we all at some point have heard the saying "falling in love" or "fell in love" but I've always wondered how does one fall into love. Is love suppose to hurt? Or should love feel so great that you want to tell the entire world about the love that you're in? Recently, there's been so much hype around who people can love and how people certain people can express their love. I think those close to me know that when it comes to love, I have an undying love for my family and closest friends. Those people who have been with me through the good and bad. I don't speak much publicly about the aspects of my private life, I mean there are some things that I feel should remain between me and the person I'm dating. Now before anyone starts to suspect anything I can say that right now Kelsey is very much single, that's about all that you're going to get out of me at this point. Now back to the topic at hand, someone recently told me that I just need love or a lover in my life and then after everything else in my life would somehow magically fall into place. Is that really how it works? Boy have I been going about it all wrong this entire time. I personally believe in order to invite someone into your life and pursue something meaningful with that person your person house must be in order. Why carry baggage into a new and what you hope will be a great relationship.
Would I like to be in love and share that love with my family and my friends, absolutely! But I'm in no shape, form, or fashion hard pressed to enter into something right now. I know that at some point it will happen but right now I don't believe that I'm completely open to the idea. With that said if I'm just a little transparent, maybe there is someone I wouldn't mind spending more time with but timing is everything isn't it and right now it's just not the time for us. I can acknowledge that and can clearly see that.
So back to my original questions, how does one fall into love? Is love suppose to hurt? Maybe one day I'll trip on the love of my life and from that fall it just might hurt.
Until next time,
peaceWORLD
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